Saturday, April 1, 2017

Celebrating Owen & Anson

 Bam! They are FOUR! They are a double bundle of energy & relished in every bit of the celebrating on the 8th of the month. As worn out as we feel at the end of any given day it is NOTHING compared to those newborn days long ago!
 
Charlotte stayed up late with the me the night before the special morning & we decorated & got the table set. It was fun to have a buddy & remember what it was like to be my mom's buddy. The morning came quickly as it always seems to do around here. The big four year olds hopped in our bed at seven & we gave them a birthday snuggle before going downstairs. I was all ramped up for excited squeals & thankfulness for all of the time spent making their morning special. Instead Owen got a little grumpy & they both got into a 20 minute argument with us about how they were still three. They were serious, haha! That "it's hard to be three" statement had carried on into being four ; )
 
Here they are finally smiling after they succumbed to the fact that it was their birthday..... 
 

a little Anson headlock to remind Owen that he ruled in utero.

The reward for smiling was the Valentine birthday breakfast of cinnamon rolls & sausage balls. This was the third year of Anson continuing to talk about his birthday candles while Owen blew his own out. Following whatever he was sharing, we had to remind him (again) of the task at hand. Makes us laugh every time.

The sun was bright & shining much like the morning they were born. Arlo joined the party partway into breakfast.

Owen & Anson have been really into trains lately & got a few new additions. Our goal was to build a track that included every piece & we (and by we, I mean I) did a fantastic job ; )

You can imagine how helpful this cutie was. It was like having a real life Godzilla tearing through our track knocking over trees & bridges but instead of roaring he was giggling.

Owen & Anson have had a Paw Patrol shirts for the past two years that were worn with their "cozies" as they called them. The shirts were stained with everything possible & had holes under the arms. The "cozies" were cotton camo pants, size 2T with holes in the knees & on their four year old leggies looked like they were perfect for flood season.  So we hooked them up with a new shirt & "cozies." It was painful to put the other ones in the trash but they have transitioned well to the new clothes.
 
We had a FaceTime birthday call with Grammy & Papa after we played with the trains. They shared that they were headed to the Arboretum & we decided to crash the party. It is not often that we decide to go somewhere of that nature off the cuff but I packed our lunch & we were out the door. That's when things got interesting.
 
When we were arriving & I was getting a stroller set up & keeping five kids safe on our trek to the entrance I received three phone calls in a row. Two from 1-800 number & one with a Dallas area code. As usual I let them go to voicemail. About 20 minutes later I got another call & then decided I should listen to the message. It started like this "Hello Mrs. Valentine, this is Officer so & so from the police department. I am at your house having responded to an alarm." I hung up immediately & called him back. The backdoor had been blown open by the wind since I apparently did not verify it was locked.
 
He went onto share that he walked through the entire house & it did not appear that anything of value was missing. He also commented that the living areas looked a little awry (go figure) & that the only thing that seemed  really out of place was a table on it's side partly blocking the doorway to the stairwell. I confirmed that it was a makeshift baby gate to confine Godzilla. I was mortified that someone walked through my house on the morning that we made a split decision & ran out the door thirty minutes later! It was a WRECK! A wreck of a house was better than having a real break-in though. The other completely out of place room was the "library" where our entire kitchen cabinet contents were unloaded due to recent painting. Again, what a mess! Thankfully he set the alarm, locked up & wished me well.
 
Even with that unexpected hiccup in our day we had a lovely time with Grammy, Papa & their friends visiting from Michigan. We walked across the entire Arboretum to bid them farewell & then I almost died. The boys were already really tired so I loaded them into the double stroller with the smallest wheels ever, strapped Arlo on my back in the Ergo & began the trip back to our entrance. Within minutes I was wishing I could steal one of the million double Bob strollers that were passing by pushed by mothers with ease. I honestly was not sure if I would make it but I did! We decided to forgo the children's area much their dismay but I let them play in the fountain before we left. It was super fun especially for Arlo who had never enjoyed spraying water. Our Florida babies enjoyed the Downtown Celebration fountain year round. He was brave, got blasted in the face multiple times & laughed going back for more.
 
Here are two of whom I tag-teamed the crew with.
 
By the time we were out of the parking lot...
 
After an afternoon movie, a surprise pizza dinner & some good baths everyone was ready to be tucked in tight for the night. I had the lights off & was singing to the birthday boys when I told them about how much I loved meeting them four years ago. I talked about how tiny they were but they were healthy & strong just the way many had prayed for them to be. They couldn't quite understand how small 3 & 5 pound babies are so I pulled out one of our favorite outfits they wore in the NICU. They were shocked & we all could not stop laughing.

Since birthdays should drag on as long as possible we celebrated the weekend before while we were in Kingwood & then the weekend after with Grammy & Papa.
 

It was a fun week & we were glad those two finally believed they were actually four! We love them.

Thursday, March 16, 2017

A smattering of Christmas

Now that the Christmas décor has been packed away for next year, Valentine's Day has come & gone with no card sent out.... it's time to record the rest of the celebrating from THREE months ago!  Due to all seven of us cycling through colds & coughing we were homebound which ended up being quite relaxing. Robby was off for nearly two weeks which was also relaxing. Christmas morning was quiet or as quiet as it can be with our bunch. We enjoyed sausage balls & cinnamon rolls then let the kiddos open their gifts.
A few highlights... a rotary phone for Arlo just so the kids can know how far we've come when they enjoy their allotted game time on my iPhone. Eloise received a cozy blanket which conveniently doubles as a winter hat. If you look closely in the picture above you will notice a snake on Eloise's head. That was a replacement for a stretchy dinosaur her brothers broke the week before Christmas. There were many tears & she was delighted to find a new one all wrapped up with a bow on top. When I asked them to sit down for a picture she said "Hold on! I want to be Pharaoh!"

Oh Arlo, just a little guy looking out the window dreaming of a white Christmas.


Owen & Anson use just about everything possible as a fishing pole or crane. Shoe laces, a measuring tape, a jump rope, mini blind strings & the one that got me the most worked up....the power cable for my mini electric shoulder heater (for lack of a better title). I walked around the corner & it was dangling from the top banister of the stair case! We decided to tunnel their creativity to trains & came across a crane addition to the track coupled with cars that carry magnetic cargo. It has been used & fought over which means it was a great gift! Charlotte's favorite gift other than a new Lego Elves set was her own set of earbuds. They figured out how to share the beats on the way to Grammy & Papa's house that afternoon.

The kids exchanged names & gave one gift to another. They were so kind & grateful for what they received. It actually made me teary eyed. We strive to teach them how to have a thankful heart & there was a glimmer of hope that morning bringing to mind that the Lord is working in us & through us. Anson received a tow truck from Owen & it was a big hit. So far it has pulled around monster trucks, all those "fishing poles" & a 6 ft long magformer/Brio train combo. Arlo really liked chasing that thing down the hallway. It's so fun to have a destructive little toddler in the house!

Destructive toddler captured for a moment...


Charlotte spent day after day making books for each person in our family plus grandparents & great Grandmothers. They showcased pictures of each thing she likes about the holiday or something she likes to do with the person the book was for. They were sweet & meticulously wrapped. 

It's always funny to us that the least expensive gift often gets most of the attention. We bought the boys $5 "clampers" as they named them. They picked up everything possible in the house & pulled chairs to be underneath the tree branches pretending to pick fruit. When asked to clean up toys they would move as slow as molasses picking up each individual toy. I guess it was good practice for hand-eye coordination even if it drove us crazy! Sadly they used these nifty toys to turn lights off & on leaving them a wee bit wiggly. It took us a awhile to pinpoint the cause but I do find it funny.

Even Bella got a gift this year. We picked out a new box of treats from a company called "Blue Dog Bakery" which was just right for Bella Bella Blue Dog. Charlotte loves to let her eat them on the carpet which keeps me busy with the vacuum. That doggie looked a little tense being photographed in her old age ; )

We spent Christmas afternoon & evening at the Valentine's & how on earth I didn't take a single picture is beyond me but we had a wonderful time! Aunt Anne three of her four joined us. The kids missed cousin Jack who is serving overseas as a U.S. Marine. He pays a lot of attention to them which makes me happy. Bob cooked us a whole smorgasbord of meats & side dishes. We were stuffed & took dessert home!

We accidently left Candycane, Elo's new snake. We didn't realize until we got home & the new snake mother was completely distraught. We called Grammy & Papa & they did a thorough search inside & outside the house which included but not limited to the garden & around the shed in the backyard, under the furniture & between the cushions on the couch & against my orders they cut all the trash bags open!  It's like they were looking for a real snake! Rewind to late elementary school they did do a similar search for a Ball Python named Reggie who belonged to my husband. They eventually found him curled up under the desk where Bob had been sitting.....gives me the chills just thinking about it! After all the ridiculous searching Anson (out of nowhere) said with a surprised look on his face "Candycane? I know where she is!" We should not doubt him since this was not the first time he claimed to know where a missing item was & was right....but we did. We decided to get Grammy & Papa on FaceTime & reveal it's suspected location which happened to be in the microwave of the play kitchen. She opened it up & bam, there was that little Candycane all curled up! It should have been the first place extensively searched due to the fact that snakes like to be warm. Anyway, we left the sneaky snake in care of the Valentines while we headed to Kingwood for a few days.

Our drive was uneventful & we arrived with a happy bunch to greet the happy bunch waiting on the driveway! We got the BEST picture we have ever had with all five kids. Robby & I don't even have one where every single pair of eyes is looking at the camera & each has a natural smile across their little face. The picture is even better because two of the Ellis family of kids stuffed animals snuck were included. Eloise had Serabi from Lion King & Anson had an orangutan that he called an "orangu-tainer" the whole time. It was one of those hilariously adorable words that we refused to correct. We just asked him more often what kind of animal he was so we could hear it again. This is probably why our children still say ""yogret" instead of yogurt. So there they are, happy & smiling!

Scott & Kyle took charge of putting together a basket full of tropical island themed gifts for the newly retired couple who were to leave for a lovely vacation just a week later. It included some necessities like a whale sounds cd, Jaws DVD & of course something to block out all those bright rays! Charlotte thinks it's hilarious to cross her eyes. I'm pretty sure she will think the same looking back when she is 14 ; )

There were many other gifts exchanged but one really stood out. Who knew you could buy a Cousin It doll? We had to show the kids a clip of Cousin It when Eloise styled her new dolls hair as pictured & placed the glasses in the appropriate spot. The doll's given name is Phoebe. I refer to her as Phoebe Buffay as I reminisce about the late 90's. She has received plenty of attention & not just from Eloise. I have found two boys either attempting to brush her hair or taking turns putting the glasses on & laughing at each other. Sometimes when I walk in the girls room & ask Eloise how Phoebe is doing she moves something off the floor, points at her & says "She's alright, just feeling lazy today."

We always spends loads of time outside & this trip was no different since it was about 80 degrees on Christmas Day! Sometimes I think we still live in Florida! Out of all the parks we frequent in our area of town I have yet to find a true see-saw which is a shame. It is so very fun to try to distribute weight  evenly with five wiggly kids! Gaga kept the littlest safe.
While Gaga took care of Arlo at the playground, Uncle Scott transported him home.

Our time there always seems to go so quickly. We ended it by celebrating my mom's 60th birthday with a delicious adult only dinner....hard to come by these days! We bid them farewell then made it home to ring in the new year in the new casa.

Over the break we were able to spend some time with Auntie Deb, Uncle Joe & cousin Keaton who gifted the boys with their own golf clubs which were a big hit, no pun intended. No one has been injured yet woohoo!

It was quite special to spend time with both Great Grandmas! Gigi was down from Michigan for nearly a month & was able to spend a couple nights here. She and Grammy kept all five while Rob & I spent a whole day away, it was fantastic. Gigi had the kids running laps in the backyard....also fantastic.

A visit from GGran brings smiles to each and every Valentine! Owen is holding up his very own handmade paper-crafted wallet with five dollars in it! That is lots of money for a little guy. The boys combined their cash to purchase a set of Dinotrux characters.


Phew, I am sure glad I wrote the bulk of this post at least 6 weeks ago! I barely remember any of those details...it was like hearing it for the first time ; )

Saturday, February 4, 2017

snips & snails & puppy dog tails

Two of my three boys get all worked up when their sisters tell them they are made of dog tails. When a party is offended we often ask "is that true?" & if the answer is no, we encourage them to move along & not be bothered. This is hard when you are three. In fact, there are a lot of things hard about being three! In 1 month & 4 days (not like anyone is counting) we will have two 4 year olds. We hope it's not hard to be four too, ha! But really, they may not be made of dog tails but they are 1 part trucks, 1 part shovels & three parts mud. I love it & I love them.
 
Arlo has finally joined in on the exploring the great outdoors on two feet although you don't necessarily need two feet when there is a dump truck to ride in.
 
The wee little babe photographed taking a ride is now big enough to fight off siblings & push the coveted truck around the yard all by him "seeelf" as Owen says.
 
We have a spot out by the back fence where lots of digging goes on. They are certain they have found multiple dinosaur bones. I just don't have the heart to tell them there are no bones. Maybe I want to believe that they are right. Those two 3 year olds attempt to be real sneaky & fill cups up with water so they can make a river but I always catch them...well, maybe not always.

While Charlotte doesn't mind getting dirty she has taken a liking to scaling trees like a baby bear cub. During one of the many mud baths I got her propped up with five pillows, a towel, a blanket & her notebook. She spent the next hour happily writing a story about a bumble bee.

Back to the Valentine Boys + dirt. The twins were so sweet helping Arlo dig. There were no tears, no fighting & a delighted baby brother joining in on the big kid fun.


They even cheered him on as he tried it out for his afternoon snack.
 
Yum yum. Not the dirt of course but those chubby baby hands that fit just right in mine.


Bella Blue always wants to know what's going on in the backyard. While these boys are not made of puppy dog tails, Arlo is certainly interested in getting ahold of that poor puppy's tail! I do love this picture for many reasons including the time stamp on life it will serve in the future of how old the boys were when Bella was still around. She is in fact alive & well but we are not blind to the fact she's not a spry young pup anymore.  Whenever we bid her farewell, she will be sorely missed by these three.

 
So as not to end on such a sad note I will close with this photo.

Another potential time stamp of little bitty kids & a young tree. I wonder how much it will grow over the years? We spend as much time as possible outside everyday especially when it's warm. Lunch, rest time, math & reading lessons are all better in the great outdoors. It is a gift to have a front row seat to the exploring this brood does day in & day out. Whether finding dinosaur bones or some colored rock they lost last month there is excitement in their eyes, a skip to their step & a song in my heart.

I struggle MANY days to embrace the level of exhaustion & frustration this life stage brings but I know that it is filled with countless opportunities to treasure what God has given me & soak it in. Opportunities to join in on a dinosaur dig, rescue a new tree climber & welcome muddy handprints on my back doors or my clean white shirt are at my doorstep.  I've never met a parent who said anything other than "enjoy, someday you will miss this" so I will ask the Lord to increase my patience, strengthen my soul on weary days & fill me with indescribable joy as I embark on the daily adventures of mothering.

Wednesday, January 4, 2017

Arlo at ONE year old

Darling Arlo turned one nearly three months ago & what a year (plus a few months) it has been! After the initial adjustment to caring for five little ones it seems as though time is flying & he is growing & changing every single day. He surprised us by being a speedy walker earlier than his older siblings which actually doesn't surprise us as he is happy to keep up with the chasing the best he can. Not only is he walking 100% of the time but he is quite the chatterbox. He's sweet, the most cuddly baby out of our nest & loved beyond by words.
 
Here we go! All about Arlo Benton at ONE year old...give or take 3 months : )
 

 
At his one year appointment:
20.6 pounds
29 inches
 
He is an average sized boy & perfectly squeezable in every way. We often joke saying "I'm so hungry, I think I might eat Arlo for lunch." Then we go onto say what we would nibble first. For me it's a toss up between his cheeks & his tootsie toes. Then we pretend to get our nibbles followed by saying our tummies are full. He doesn't mind the attention since it feels like he's being tickled the whole time. I would HATE that!
 

 
Here he is on the move. He was going full speed to the tree that his big brothers & sisters were attempting to scale. Once he convinced them to come down with his squeals he enjoyed their performance of "I'm bringing home a baby bumble-bee." He was all smiles!
 
 
 
What Darling Arlo is up to at one year old:
  •  goes by the nicknames: Arley, doodle, doodle-bug, ba-doodle, bubberoni, goo-ghee, "my chubbiness" by Owen & in the past week he has been deemed "my little snuglet" by Anson, ha!
  • loves bath time & copies everything the twins do whether it's dunking their heads underwater or attempting to slide down the back of the tub. He also likes to pour water over the side....not sure who taught him that.
  • became a full time walker by Thanksgiving & when he wants to move fast he leans forward & his little feet get movin'!
  • he "talks" to you making all sorts of sounds with inflection but no actual words. He is pleased when you converse with him saying "No way! Are you serious? Oh yeah, I like that too!"
  • spends a lot of time everyday making cars go down ramps & cheering for himself
  • could win the baby division of a sprint to the front door followed by a speedy staircase climb...Usain Bolt is his hero. Should have shielded his eyes from the Rio coverage last summer!
  • he has evaluated the self soothing techniques of four older siblings & decided on a combination of sucking his thumb & rubbing his bellybutton. On a stressful day his button ends up SO red!
  • when he is headed down stairs he gets on his belly & goes feet first also at record speed. It's almost like there is no bumping along....just sliding
  • thinks it's hilarious to pinch people (it really does hurt!) but makes us laugh with how he throws his head back & gives a good belly laugh, screams & does it again
  • he's extremely tough whether attacking or being attacked
  • says "guh" constantly declaring what he would like by stretching out his arm & extending his hand. Robby says he would be great in the service industry.
  • LOVES Bella & calls her "lellelah" over & over as he moves in for a rough pat down
  • he is under the impression that he cannot make a sound in the car & would win the Quiet game by a long shot time & time again
  • he's so quiet at home sometimes we forget he's there. I was leaving the other afternoon & Rob said as I was walking out the door "Where's Arlo?" I pointed at the baby in a high chair a mere five feet away & we both laughed. It's nice that someone can be quiet around here ; )
  • drools so much we call him droolia-childs & droolia-goolia
  • every time we walk down the stairs past a 1990's original security system key pad he gets really excited saying "guh guh guh" faster & faster until I hold him up where he can reach it & I start saying "beep beep beep beep" while he presses the keys. There is actually another keypad over his crib in the boys' room. That should keep him busy for hours!
  • got his first haircut Thanksgiving week & hated every millisecond of it
  • he has five teeth, one of those which just popped through the other day
  • would swing as long as you keep swinging him
  • enjoys a leisurely ride in the wagon 
  • he's really great at following directions so long as they are along the lines of "put your hands in the toilet" or "pull out the dirty silverware & lick it" YUCK!


Dreamland: I am not sure what is wrong with the Nest between the hours of 3 & 7 am but it is certainly far from restful at the moment! This cutie contributes by waking up once. We would still love for him to room with the buckaroos but sleep is more important right now so the less people can disrupt each other the better. He in in the guestroom with a beautiful floral duvet cover. Someday he can have more masculine surroundings. Around his birthday he was taking naps from about 9:30-11 & 1:45-3:45 but has dropped the morning nap. He practically begs to go to bed around 1:30 & sometimes sleeps for 3 hours. Nighttime sleep starts around 6:45pm & he's up & at 'em by 7:15 saying "guh" requesting his breakfast. Arlo is a happy boy when you lay him down. He snuggles up with a quilt, pops his thumb in his mouth, offers a heart melting sleepy-eyed grin & he's out like a light.
It's like he's never been fed: The hands pictured above are successfully fulfilling the important role of shoving food into his mouth. Once he hit about 9 months old his appetite went through the roof & we can't keep up. His favorites are: MEAT, meat & more meat, broccoli, peas, bell peppers, blueberries, grapes, oranges, lasagna, BBQ, scrambled eggs, oatmeal, applesauce, potatoes of any kind, fish, yogurt raisins, peanut butter on anything, Cheerios, pecans, yogurt & just about anything but bananas. He is still nursing a couple times a day. He has finally started drinking more than a few sips of milk from his sippy cup & can down a cup full just as fast as he can crawl up the stairs. "Lellelah" is getting plenty of extra scraps & Arlo is amused at the attention she gives him. I let him try feeding himself his oatmeal this morning & he needed a spray down when he was done...you never learn if you don't try!


Well, I must come to a close but leave you with one last picture of our little snuglet as Anson would say. I smiled while snapping this photo thinking about how a newly walking toddler is a bittersweet sight knowing that they are literally a step closer to independence. For now he's still our baby : )