Sunday, November 15, 2015

Arlo at 1 month

The first month has flown by with the hustle & bustle of caring for our little bunch! Arlo has been showered with much affection both wanted & unwanted though as far as we can tell, he is loving life. It is not hard to gather that those who reside at the Nest are enjoying our newest addition. 


1 Month Stats
9 pounds 9 ounces
21 1/2 inches long


What a joy this little guy is with his tongue constantly poking out of his mouth, the beginnings of sweet little baby sounds when we talk to him & the loving toleration of all the attention from four older siblings. He makes us laugh when someone zooms in much closer to his face than the person who was previously there. His eyes are huge & locked in place like he is thinking "where did you come from & please don't approach me that quickly again!" He is mostly content which is a wonderful way of life for a 5th child. We have caught a few smiles when we are talking to him or tickling his double chin....can't wait to start seeing those all the time!



He like his sister Eloise has a high palette which made for a fairly painful first two weeks of nursing. Thankfully the pain has resided & he has become an efficient little eater. He is nursing about every 3 hours but has surprised us with a 4-5 hour stretch overnight a handful of times. Such hope! I had the pleasure of spending a few hours alone one afternoon & he was happy as he could be sucking down a bottle with a few ounces of milk. Woohoo! I have been lazy on stocking up any sort of milk supply in the freezer since I am not going back to work this time around....like there is probably 6 ounces in there : )  I need to get on the ball though so we can be free for a date night, a moment of freedom or extra long nap here & there.


Like eating, Arlo has fallen into a good routine of sleeping as well. He wakes up, eats, lasts about 30 minutes past eating then gets fussy till swaddled again.  He is happiest being held to fall asleep & often passes out unnoticed in the crook of my arm while I am chasing the twins around the house. The swing runs a close second to being held & being laid in his cradle to fall asleep is the worst thing he has experienced thus far in life.  He has proven he is capable of screaming himself to sleep on two occasions.....like the time I was panicked & on the phone with Poison Control when Owen was found taking a swig out of a bottle of Ibuprofen. Thankfully he was fine & although I felt bad for my sweet little newborn, it was a good test ; ) Once he is asleep he makes it till around the 2.5 - 3 hour mark from his last feeding. We borrowed a Rock n' Play from a friend & he is a pretty good fan of being snuggled in there....who wouldn't be? My goal this week is to work on getting him to sleep on a flat surface again. Overnight for the most part he falls back asleep easily & on his own after nursing but probably two nights a week he & I are awake with cat naps between the hours of 2-7am. Those are painful but I just write it off as increasing his meal order for the next night. We have never had a baby during chilly weather (that is only getting chillier) & it is sooooo hard to get out from under all the cozy covers! I'm tired but I love snuggling him at night without beating everyone else back with a stick ; ) He is a big fan of being strapped on me & we do that often as well. We just keep reminding ourselves that eventually they sleep all night.....eventually ; )

Pure sweetness....


Highlights of life with the Fab Five via Instagram

Just to name a few...

  • meeting Great Grandma Virginia & Uncle Kyle
  • first bath following his umbilical stump falling off & being eaten by Bella
  • tummy time with entertainment
  • magic zebra on the head
  • first trip to Target
  • LOTS of attention!




 
 




So far, so good! I think we'll keep him ; )

Wednesday, November 4, 2015

Halloween Mash-up

I'm pretty sure I set the bar high for myself last year with the Cast of Peter Pan costumes although I really didn't care about measuring up. I do love making costumes but this was definitely not the year for that task. We opted to tell the girls to check out their dress up bin & pick something, dressed the buckaroos as buckaroos & little man in a festive pair of jammies. "Easy Peasy Lemon Squeezy" as the girls say. 

It was definitely a mash up & the combination was fabulous because it was next to nothing financially, no extra work minus 5 minutes on an Indian headband & cute as can be. 

Here is the Fab Five...


We swore we would stop calling Owen "Cowboy Small" but could not resist for obvious reasons. He does resemble Big Tex a bit with the hand raised. Anson, oh Anson. I tried to take away the blankie but Robby & Uncle Kyle said to let him hold it.....you might think it was sewn to his hand. He would have made the perfect Linus ; )

My parents were in Nashville in early September & called to see who had cowboy boots that fit. I looked at the sizes of the girls old boots & found that Anson could wear Eloise's old ones leaving the other three bootless.  They did some shopping & stopped through Dallas on their way home. I told my mom to not worry about getting a new pair for Anson & that he wouldn't even remember that his "new pair" were in fact an old pair. Boy was I wrong! It was hilarious when each of the kids were ooing & ahhing over their new boots poor Anson had a frown on his face while saying "Nooooo (with his adorable inflection) these aren't new boots! I want those boots!" He was of course pointing at Owee's awesome pair. I can't say his attitude has improved much since he pouts nearly every time the boots come out & he watches Owen get his on. Anyway, someday he can have a new pair!


The girls went in vintage costumes thanks to two lovely seamstresses.  Eloise wore a costume my mom made for Uncle Scott when he was about four. I added a stretchy baby headband with a few feathers hot glued to it. I also braided her hair which is SO unlike me. For some reason I missed the boat on fixing girls hair & braiding is a skill I lack. When I sat down to fix her hair I said, "Mommy is going to try to braid it but it might not work & you have to be okay with that." Robby laughed & said "oh boy, I wish Aunt Jenny or Gaga were here" since they are braiding masters. I was shocked when it worked & then even more shocked that it stayed in place till bedtime!

Charlotte wore a twirling costume my Grandmother made for my mom in the 60's. I do believe she wore it in a talent show at her elementary school. The best part was that she went to Casa View Elementary so there was a "CV" on the front for none other than Charlotte Valentine! Charlotte is becoming much more interested in girly things such as hair bows, headbands and.....cheerleaders. Actually she could have cared less about cheerleaders until we saw a group of girls no older than 11 practicing near our house. They were adorable, quite uncoordinated & having a blast practicing jumps. Charlotte stopped in the middle of the street & stared until we convinced her to continue our walk. She talked the rest of the way home about cheerleaders & how she would like to be one but she couldn't because she didn't have blonde hair.  Her daddy told her that I used to be a cheerleader & she was so excited. I didn't go into how awful I was....proof in a video of a Kingwood Middle School volleyball game but did remind her that my hair is not blonde & I still got to be a cheerleader.

She said she needed some pom poms so I ordered these. She couldn't hide her disappointment when she opened the box & sweetly said "This is not what I was expecting. I thought they would be pom poms that look like a puffy ball." I hated that for her but she told me she liked them anyway & she could still be a cheerleader. Such a sweet girl. We were cracking up because the second she had all the pieces to her costume she put them on & ran around the house yelling "Go racers! Go racers!" but we never figured out who the "racers" are. She also did a few cheerleading jumps that looked similar to mine in the aforementioned video. Last bit about her...she actually asked me to put her hair in a ponytail & clip on a sparkly bow. I willingly did this all the while thinking "who is this child?" The rest of the night she asked us constantly "is my bow cricket?" Too cute to remind her that the word is actually "crooked."



All Eloise cared about was getting a picture of her holding Arlo. We couldn't deny her & she did a great job! I can't blame her...I wanted a turn too! The girls & I made a quick trip to Old Navy that morning & came across only one Halloween related baby outfit & what do you know, it was a newborn size! It was also $3. So I think in total we spent about $20 to outfit five kids. That will be a hard to beat in future years.

Here's precious Arlo as "baby batman"...


It was so fun to have Kyle in town with us. An extra set of hand for an adventure such as trick or treating is so helpful. Around 4 we headed over to Lisa & Euan's house for a little pre- trick or treat party. It was a two fold celebration coupled with Euan's birthday.  They did a fabulous job preparing all the delicious food & making it extremely kid friendly. We loved catching up with Lisa's parents & Euan's mom who was in town plus a couple other friends. The kids played inside & out, chased around a soccer ball with Euan who was dressed as a chef. His little Liam was dressed as a lobster or "lompster or monster" as the boys say. They were quite the pair & won the award for most creative costume at his work party that week. Anyway, the kids were all sugared up from the cupcakes & candy at the house before we even left to trick or treat. It was after six & close to sunset when we finished up at the bash so we decided to hit up the houses on their street. Best idea we'd had all day! Lisa's mom Nancy offered to snuggle Arlo after I filled up his tank. He was pretty content & she had him snoozing free of charge when we returned.

Euan had the kids do a few dry runs of ringing the doorbell & saying trick or treat at their front door before he & Rob walked them next door to try it for real. When they passed the test we were photo ready & off to collect some treats! I could not stop laughing when I saw this picture. Eloise looks like she is throwing up in her bucket! If we would have let the kids eat as much candy as they desired they would have all looked like that ; ) We probably would have too.


Our trip up & down the street in bullet points:
  • Charlotte & Eloise were capable of running ten times faster than their bubbies who looked a little like Woody from Toy Story with knees that could buckle (and did) at any second. The boys kept yelling "Wait for me! I'm comin'!" The girls were so sweet to wait & even lift the boys up to ring the doorbell. 
  • As far as ringing the doorbell goes, we would tell the kiddos to ring it one time only. They took that to mean one time each. 
  • The buckaroos buckled at the knees every other house spilling a bucket of candy. Anson even rolled down a few steps but both were so concerned about their candy they spent all their time panicking about that & never acted hurt.  Maybe we should carry those around the house all the time!.
  • Once it was really dark we saw a kids bike that was hooked to another kids bike side by side, There was a ninja dad on one keeping the wheels rollin' very slow making it seem like there was a ghost on the other. It was pretty creepy but not as creepy as the next house. It was one of those houses where they leave a bowl out front & remind you that you are on video surveillance. The entire house was dark minus a room upstairs with pink lights & a large cat sitting on the window sill staring straight at us.
  • At one house the man who answered passed out a bit to each kid then looked at Owen & said "You look a little small, here's some more candy." Ha!
  • Charlotte was super pumped the whole time until we turned around to head back toward our car. She looked at me & said "This is the worst Halloween ever, I'm not having any fun!" then we stopped at three more houses & she said it was the best Halloween ever. Six year olds can be so fickle. 
  • The kids figured out they could ask for a second round of treats & people would't say no. When given the option to grab, the boys went for it, Elo was close behind & Charlotte was polite. This definitely showed in the amount of candy in each bucket.
  • Anson kept telling us "I go up & jingle bell (rings the doorbell) & say special treat!" He almost had it down!
In closing, it was a really fun evening with friends & our little family. It was even more fun since Uncle Kyle joined us for the weekend. He came up from Houston to meet his newest nephew & he brought me 2 half gallons of Dutch Chocolate Blue Bell. What a treat just a few days before it was back on the shelves in Dallas. Here he is with the little babe he walked to sleep more than a few times. 




Sunday, November 1, 2015

the Fab Four meet their +1

It was delightful to welcome little Arlo as a mama & daddy but even more delightful to introduce the Fab Four to their plus 1. It was a sweet moment. Here's the whole crew...


Since we were settled into our "home away from home" around dinner time following Arlo's arrival, my Dad brought Charlotte up all by herself to meet him. For weeks she had been telling us that once he was born she did not want to see him via FaceTime...even his little baby feet. She wanted it to be a surprise & boy did she have quite the grin when the time came to lay eyes on her newest baby brother! I'm pretty sure she slept with a huge smile on her face. Char is an expert baby holder having gained most of her experience at age 3 when her twin baby brothers were born. She scooped him right up & started talking to him....absolutely precious. She would have spent the night with us had we invited her. 

Mid morning the following day they all arrived to to meet the little guy & the excitement was impossible to contain. They quickly flocked to the guy with the baby. SO cute. 


Owen & Anson were thrilled to see the DART rail outside our window so they were occupied no matter which direction they were facing. I do love this picture of all my Valentine boys.....



Then came time for holding...Anson on left & Owen on right. I even had to do a double take to verify identity ; ) 




What a silly & happy bunch! Some of mine & Rob's favorite things about the following picture: Owee's token grin with squinty eyes, Anson & his cheese ball smile, Charlotte (looking extremely old) & her confidence, the way Lolo is snuggled on Char's shoulder & Arlo with his hand over his mouth thinking "What is happening? My life seemed so calm five minutes ago!"

He handled all the "nuggles" well before we said goodbye to the bubbies & sissies. He spent lots of time looking around & at us...the calmest of the crew.

Eloise was right. Baby feet are the best!

Our time in the hospital went really well. We weren't super excited about the food after our stays at Winnie Palmer Hospital so we had fun ordering out lunch/dinner or picking up a Starbucks vanilla latte & delicious breakfast sandwich from downstairs. We kept joking saying we were on vacation. When my childhood friend Lisa & her mom stopped by they surprised us with a box of a dozen Snicker-doodles from Tiff's Treats. They are the best cookies I have ever had. We rationed them & did not share with anyone ; ) I put a wink face but really, it was serious business to guard them.

Our room was strangely quiet even with the cry of a newborn.  I was a bit anxious to get back to the Nest but we decided to stay overnight the second night. I actually rested really well (when I was asleep) & was up bright & early, showered, dressed & ready to get home to the rest of our brood. We loved our time with our newest addition knowing that once we arrived home he would have to be shared.

Over all it was a completely different experience this time around following Owen & Ansons' birth. They went straight to the NICU where they stayed for nearly a month. Having a healthy baby boy in our arms was such a joy & we spent plenty of time just marveling over his sweetness. It is always incredible to think about the intricate fashioning of a baby in the womb that grows from something smaller than the human eye can see to a newborn that one minute is on the inside & the next minute in your arms. I love watching their little wiggles & laughing about seeing certain movements I felt while they were in the womb. I'm not sure I ever get tired of staring at one of my babies although as they get older, I like to stare when they are asleep.  That might sound creepy but it's not, I am their mother ; )

Here we are the final morning with the little guy ready to head home.

We loaded him up in the big red truck we bought just months after we married. Arlo's sisters & brothers all came home in it too. The girls were playing outside when we arrived & could not hide their excitement! I love how Elo is holding Arlo's foot : ) We had a few minutes with just them before Owen & Anson arrived with Grammy, Papa & Gigi. All the "big kids" & "four legged kids" were well cared for while we were in the hospital. My parents with the girls & the Valentines with the boys. Our house was spic & span thanks to my mama. Bob picked up some lunch for us that I scarfed down....I've been so hungry lately feeding another baby! 




And just like that, we became The Valentine Seven. Back at the Nest it has been wonderful to be together. Hectic & loud at many times but looking around at the faces of five little ones makes us smile. We are so very thankful for our newest bundle and are all transitioning well into a slightly different pace. A different pace that offers plenty of time for snuggles with Arlo.