Monday, April 20, 2020

The Valentines take on San Antonio

As I begin writing this, we are on week four of quarantine during the Covid-19 Pandemic. Our children will most certainly remember the news reports they have seen & heard, the abrupt end to dining out, playgrounds, grocery store runs, school, etc. I hope they will also note that it is when Mom finally got it together & caught up on the blog! 

As we have spent countless hours as a family playing Skip Bo, racing in the backyard & exploring the woods near our house, we are just relishing in who they are at their current ages. We have watched old videos, looked through pictures & read blog posts from their itty bitty years. It has served as a reminder that time passes quickly & my brain can only retain a certain amount of information and I must record it as soon as possible so as not to leave out something important or hilarious. Life just seems to be in a strange holding pattern at the moment. So while in holding, let's travel back in time 11 months ago....

It was my birthday wish last year to spend a long weekend away as a family. San Antonio was the chosen destination & it was delightful!  Growing up, our family took a number of trips to San Antonio & surrounding cities & if my memories serve me right, we had so much fun. As parents of five children, the understanding of what our parents may have experienced on those dreamy (to an 8 year old) trips is clear as day! We had some tense moments as expected but the enjoyable moments outweighed the stress. 

Here we are, the iconic Texan photo...

This trip had been a long time coming. When I was pregnant with the twins, my mom stocked up the buckaroo bookshelf with all things cowboy. One favorite book is called Hello Texas and we have read it a million times. Here are the pages Arlo read in preparation for our adventure....


Prior to our trip we did a little shopping. Every boy needs a new cap for vacation right? They found these at Target & just couldn't pass them up. I actually forced them to pass them up one trip but on round two they made a bee-line for them in the store, placed them on their little heads & I couldn't resist. Anson's is a shark eating a slice of pizza & says "Snack Attack" which is just perfect for the bottomless pit that he is.  Owen chose the classic Batman, always has.  Nearly one year later & the hats are still gigantic, haha! 


While San Antonio was our final destination, we made a stop on the way at Homestead Heritage in Waco. To quote their website, "Homestead Heritage is an agrarian- and craft-based intentional Christian community. Its literature stresses simplicity, sustainability, self-sufficiency, cooperation, service and quality craftmanship." Bob & Jeannine had first taken the girls there then my mom & I ended up at the restaurant there by accident while headed to the Hill Country for a girls' weekend. We (me + my Valentine girlies) were really looking forward to bringing Valentine boys along. They were certainly not disappointed by all that there was to explore!

The blacksmith was a hit with our crew. We watched a couple men work then got to visit with one for a bit prior to going in the gift shop. For some reason, we bought an iron nail for each boy that was crafted on site.  It was such a fantastic idea to buy nails for two 6 year olds and a 3 year old, right? They were confiscated quickly into the car ride south & I hid them so well when we got home that I haven't seen them in months. Anyway, Arlo kept calling him "Mr. Smith" after we left saying "Mr. Smith made me that nail." Oh my, it made us giggle. Check out how sharp that nail is that Owen is holding!



It was a beautiful day despite being a little toasty. We walked through gardens, along the pasture & to the rest of the crafting areas where we were able to observe the grinding of wheat, basket making, wood working, and weaving/spinning of fabric. We loved it.

There were some stables & pens with animals and all enjoyed seeing the calf in this one.

We scarfed down a DELICIOUS lunch where the only complaint (by Owen) was that the peanut butter & jam sandwich had an entire jar's worth of jam on it. It was comical to watch the globs just plop onto the plate with his disgusted face. Our bellies were full & we were back on I-35 listening to a little Texas Country music which is what you do on a road trip 'round here.

San Antonio couldn't come fast enough with a car full of our favorite children.  Robby was the driver, I was the navigator and apparently there are two hotels by the same name in nearby locations. The streets were super busy & I led him down multiple one way streets to arrive in the valet line at the hotel where we did NOT have a reservation.  I had all the kids unbuckled & we were about to disembark the vehicle when the kind parking attendant confirmed that we did not in fact have a reservation there & gave us the address for the other hotel. We re-buckled, 2 in boosters, 3 in five point harnesses with me climbing through the car. Thankfully, our actual hotel was not too far away & they welcomed us with smiles. I think some people have genuine smiles when they look at a larger family, others fake smile with concern in their eyes. We saw a bit of both on this trip.

The kids were enamored by the idea of staying in a hotel. Charlotte at four years old called it a Hotelf which means that we still call it that. We unloaded the massive amount of things we brought for a four day trip & headed up to our room. The people at the front desk were AMAZING and hooked us up with a room at the end of the hall that had a stairwell separating us from the nearest neighbor. We had a couple big beds, a fold out couch & a pop up bed for baby bear Arlo. We thought he might be jealous of everyone else's sleeping spots but he loved his! Anywhere that is right next to me (his favorite person) is fine by him! The entire trip he called the hotel "the sleeping museum."


Now comes the fun part. They got hungrier by the second & we decided to venture out for some dinner. I made a poor assumption that if you are on the Riverwalk, there are ample restaurants at your doorstep. I was wrong. Those we found had 1 hour wait times, it was SO stressful! Mommy & Daddy were in great moods ; ) We finally got a table at a Mexican place where we were quite underdressed. We didn't care though due to the fact that people were starving. As we walked to our table, Eloise stepped on the back of Owen's flip flops & ripped the strap right off.  That got him all riled up. Once we sat down, it was so loud between the talking and music we had to scream to the kids to get their attention. It was unbearable so we left & headed back "home." This picture was taken before the search started. I did not take a photo of the argument we got into on this bridge 30 minutes later, ha!


We had some snacks available so yogurt & peanut butter crackers were enjoyed as Robby came up with plan B. Surprisingly, there was a restaurant just next door called Mexican Manhattan that had enough open seating for a wedding reception. The staff welcomed us & we were seated along the river. It was perfect & slightly annoying yet funny that we took quite the adventure to not eat then ended up within yelling distance of our room at the hotelf.  Margaritas were enjoyed by those over 21 even though it looks like these three got ahold of one when we weren't paying attention. 


The take away from that night was to make a reservation, so we did & dining from there on out was easy peasy lemon squeezy as Eloise used to say.  Speaking of dining & our little dimpled Eloise....the kids were amazed at the breakfast buffet. The Texas shaped waffles with whipped cream, syrup and M&Ms on top were quite the treat to sky rocket our glucose levels!


After tummies were full, we ventured out to see the sites. We went straight to the Alamo. The lesson on how a cannon works might have been the highlight of the morning.  Charlotte had read a biography about Davy Crockett and loved seeing some of what she had read about. 




Anson found his name on the History of Texas Timeline outside the Alamo. Anson Jones, the fifth & final President of the Republic of Texas. Yes, that was a factor in choosing his name. We of course had to stop at the gift shop & I finally realized why I had a million key chains from vacation. Other than postcards they are one of the most affordable things there. The girls actually chose key chains as their souvenir, yea! Owen had his eye on (pun intended) a miniature telescope. He chose to move on down the road & look for other things but when it came down to it, that is ALL he wanted so he & I took a detour & went back to get it for him. He was extremely excited & proud to have something that looked so official. 



We came across the neatest park in the middle of the city. When we arrived, there were multiple school groups but they soon cleared out & we nearly had the place to ourselves! 


It was full of these beautiful mosaic animals that the kids loved climbing on.

The kids ran like crazy & by the time we were ready for lunch, little Arlo's legs could walk no more. Thankfully, his dad is always up for offering a ride when he says "Dada, can I ride up on top?" Little Arley was overjoyed to see that the trash man comes to San Antonio too! It's the simple things.

That afternoon, we hit up the pool at the "sleeping museum" even though I found the water a wee bit chilly. Kudos to Robby who played & welcomed being splashed by the foursome. Little bit stayed close to his mama & the sunshine. 

Since we goofed on dining out our first night, we were rock stars the next. We made a reservation at The Rainforest Cafe & told the kids we had a surprise dinner after a lengthy walk. It did not disappoint although Arlo was not quite sure about those unpredictable animals! He was giving Rainforest Cafe two thumbs up by the time he had Lava Mud in his mouth. It was the perfect mix of chocolate pudding & Oreo crumbles but watch out for those gummy worms! A certain Valentine child got a little heimlich action at the Orlando location back in the day due to those slippery suckers. Clue- she is the tallest one.




The Riverwalk is so lovely AND a tad stressful with a multitude of children in tow. I was talking to a lady who had been running & stopped to take a break. She said she had been running that path for six years and had never seen anyone fall in. We were nearly certain that one of ours would take an accidental dive!  When we took the picture of the twins in front of the restaurant, Arlo wandered off & stood along the water for what felt like 3 full minutes of panic. His grin was pretty cute when he realized we were looking for him...stinker.  In the end, all swimming was saved for the pool.




Since it was birthday eve for me, my people were more generous with their smiles : )  Plus, they were excited. It was not only birthday eve but adventures at Sea World were just one sleep away!

Monday, April 13, 2020

all treats, no tricks


Everytime I thought about writing this post I kept thinking about a joke that could start with "Two knights & a ninja walk into a bar." But I am not all that creative with jokes so it stops there. Maybe the abrupt ending with no punchline actually makes it funny? I'll proceed. My creativity with costumes ebbs and flows & this year it was at a dead stop! 

Here is the rundown on costume choices- 
  1. Charlotte tried on my Kingwood Cougars cheerleading uniform last time we were in the Livable Forest & it happened to fit perfectly. This was a reminder that I was as unusually small 8th grader. I was also quite possibly the worst cheerleader. I reassured her that she was a normal sized 5th grader who looked fantastic. She brought it home & quickly decided she was too old to dress up but by the time Halloween rolled around she came bounding out of the house decked out for a football game. She looks too old : ( 
  2. Eloise & Anson were obsessed with being knights. We learned about Medieval History last fall which maybe sparked their interest. We ordered two costumes, but when they arrived it proved to be laughably small on Eloise....especially the helmet! Gaga hooked her up with a ninja costume when we were at Target. It was perfect for her ninja like skills she is perfecting with Taekwondo this semester.
  3. Owen wanted to be a praying mantis which was an idea from last year. The requested costume included spikes on the arms so he could quickly devour candy, hahaha! I told him that with 3 days notice I couldn't make it happen this year. He told me Gaga was coming into town. I had to break the news that she wasn't arriving with green leotards & razor blades. Once Eloise finally come to terms with the fact that the knight costume was WAY too small, Owen decided he would look pretty darn tough in it & that he did!
  4. Anson was the die hard knight. He was committed from August on & I loved seeing his grin behind the helmet. 
  5. Arlo, he is so easy to please. I basically laid out 5 costumes from the bin on the couch & he immediately picked up the fireman costume, put it on & never complained for a second. He was annoyed that the Velcro wasn't holding the accessories on very well but what could I do...it has been worn by many a Valentine. 
Our knights in shining armor..


Ninja girl & Kingwood Cougar circa 1990s ....


Weeeee-ooooo, Weeeeee-ooooo, here comes Arlo!





The Fab Five that keep us laughing (when behaving)



We enjoyed trick-or-treating in our neighborhood with a favorite family, the Hofmanns. We spend a lot of time together between school, church & living near by. Their boys are best buddies with our boys & their littlest adores Charlotte and truly dislikes me, haha!

Courtney & I are almost identical in size & hair color. We happen to have the same tastes in clothes, purses & shoes. Our littlest kids have grabbed the wrong mama's leg when not paying attention. Our husbands find it amusing. There was a Sunday that Courtney asked DJ if what she was wearing looked cute & he replied that she should just ask if it would look cute on Lauren. At this point if one of us buys something we joke that we should have just bought an extra to pass along. Even our wedding dresses look eerily similar! All that to say, we dressed up as each other. Sadly, she had just cut her hair & I wasn't up for bangs on a whim for a Halloween picture ; )


The whole crew & the Valentine crew....


I need to get my thinking cap on a little earlier next time but I fear that Charlotte won't want to dress up. Maybe that's not too bad, one less costume & I'll just promote her to the Assistant to the Seamstress position : )

Monday, December 9, 2019

Arlo turns four!

Well, well, well, we blinked and Darlin' Arlo turned four...sad face. We just want to freeze him at this age with the hilarious things he says, his facial expressions & very selfishly I want to keep him this age because he adores me, haha! He was delighted to have four birthday balloons in his hand & jokingly acted like he was going to let them fly away.




Grammy & Grandpa came to celebrate with us & arrived just in time for a last round of pictures before we headed inside for dinner. It is rare that we get a picture of everyone smiling AND looking at the camera at the same time, woo hoo!

Then sneaky Arlo tricked Grammy & Grandpa by saying, "Let's do silly faces!" but didn't do one himslef.

G Gran never misses a good party & came bearing gifts! Arlo received a Curious George stuffed animal carrying a backpack with $4 plus a set of books about that curious little monkey. For months we have checked out Curious George and the Chocolate Factory from the library. There have been moments of great sadness when another monkey obsessed child had happily taken the book home & we had to wait for it to be returned. He was bright eyed & excited to sit down & read.  You can't quite see his shirt but he got the hookup with a replacement tee that says "Garbage day is my favorite day of the week." For quite awhile he wore it every Tuesday & Friday as he stood outside to wave hello to his heroes. 

He requested a monster truck cake & I was inspired and excited to be old Lauren for a day & go all out for the first time in awhile. 2020 is going to be the year of comebacks....I can feel it ; ) I will admit, it was really enjoyable to make & seeing that he absolutely loved it made me smile. 


Not only was it cute but it was tasty too! 

Everyone was mad that I didn't let anyone help with the baking. He was a serious little guy! 

Birthday morning is always our favorite. We worked together to make the perfectly decorated table with everything from the boys' closet to the crafty cabinet. The four big kids personalized it with pictures & names. They drew one where flames were coming out of the back of the car & someone wrote "toot" just to get me to roll my eyes...I admit that it was clever & funny. I love that at the top of the picture on the right you can see "oh my goodness" in Charlotte's handwriting. They LOVE him!


The Fab Five ready to party!

Sausage balls & cinnamon rolls were served to this smiling boy who was quite pleased with the monster trucks everywhere!

He is fully convinced by no convincing of our own that Daddy's Jeep is called a Jeeper Beeper, so of course I had to make him a shirt to go with his new cap. 

The classic game of Hi-Ho Cherry-O was played a million times throughout the day thanks to Uncle Scott & Uncle Kyle. I referred to the cherries as apples EVERY time I talked about it. Arlo liked correcting me....just like the rest of my little students ; ) 

 I am not sure how an entire birthday goes by with multiple cameras & we don't get a picture of us with the birthday boy on his special day! Here are a couple recent snapshots....
Remember how I said he adores me? I am rejoicing that it is mistletoe season & he wants to smooch me multiple times throughout the day. He loves his Daddy too : ) In fact today he came inside SO grumpy & said in his mean voice "When is Daddy coming home from stupid work!" When stupid work ended for the day, he was a happy & giggly four year old. He is just the sweetest caboose for the Valentine Train. Happiest of Birthdays Darling Arlo.